Two people sitting in a home environment applying for carer´s allowance
Two people sitting in a home environment applying for carer´s allowance
Two people sitting in a home environment applying for carer´s allowance
Two people sitting in a home environment applying for carer´s allowance

Carer's Quick Guide to Respite Care in London

Carer's Quick Guide to Respite Care in London

Being an unpaid carer is demanding anywhere, but in a bustling, expensive city like London, the pressure can feel immense. The isolation, the juggling of commitments, and the relentless nature of your role can quickly lead to burnout, making that well-deserved break feel less like a luxury and more like an absolute necessity. At Carefree, we know how vital it is for you to step away and recharge, and we also know that the biggest hurdle to booking your hotel break is often the question: "Who will look after the person I care for?"

The first thing to remember is that needing respite care so you can take a 1-2 night break is not selfish. You can't pour from an empty cup. Even a short break significantly reduces stress and recharges you. This isn't just about your health; it's about making your caring role sustainable so you can continue to be the best support possible.

Let’s look at five London respite care options.

(For a more general overview on what respite care is and nationwide options make sure to check out our full guide here)


  1. Check with the council in your local borough. 

For London carers, the journey to funded respite begins with your local borough's Adult Social Services. The most crucial first step is requesting a free Carer's Assessment. This conversation with a social care professional is your chance to clearly explain how caring impacts your health, job, and relationships in the capital. They will then outline the specific respite care options and funding routes available to you. Some may have Carer specific action plans and support you were not previously aware of.


  1. Friends and family providing respite care

While formal services require planning, assessment, or payment, for many London carers, the most immediate and accessible form of respite comes from friends and family, your informal support network. A trusted relative or close friend stepping in for even a short period can be the quickest way to get a much-needed break without bureaucracy or cost. This support might look like a few hours of coverage so you can attend an appointment, (Or a Carefree Break) if a family member is willing to stay over. For many of our London-based carers and beyond, this is the most common form of respite care.


  1. Home care from a paid/volunteer Carer

Many local London charities and Carers' Organisations offer essential, in-home caring services.

This means a friendly, trained volunteer comes to your home to spend time with the person you care for. This is a crucial, low-barrier route to getting a break, allowing you to step away for a few hours with peace of mind. While most services cover short periods, contact your local borough's Carers' Hub to find the specific options and availability operating near you.


  1. Residential care homes and day care options

Some residential care homes provide short-term respite stays, offering professional 24-hour support within a safe, temporary environment. Secondly, and perhaps more accessible, are local day care centres operating across the boroughs. These centres function as a vital social hub, particularly for those who find it difficult to get out and about independently. These will usually need to be booked ahead.


  1. The good ol’ google search

When you're ready to search, a great starting point is the NHS website, which often lists local services, or a simple Google search using a phrase like "respite care homes in [Your London Borough]."

Crucially, always check the Care Quality Commission (CQC) directory. The CQC is the independent regulator for all health and social care in England. Its website allows you to find and compare regulated London care homes and services, providing access to essential inspection reports and ratings so you can make a fully informed choice.


Book your 1-2 night Carefree break today

I haven't had a holiday in over 21 years. I am literally on call night and day, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It's exhausting. I just carry on, carrying on. I forget about myself. I don't count myself as an actual person with needs. Even when I'm poorly, I can't stop and just have to carry on. This break meant the world to me. I can't even explain how wonderful it made me feel. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart. The hotel and staff were very nice and the food wasn't just lovely, I didn't have to clean up or wash the dishes. How wonderful to not feel guilty about such things! Thank you

I haven't had a holiday in over 21 years. I am literally on call night and day, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It's exhausting. I just carry on, carrying on. I forget about myself. I don't count myself as an actual person with needs. Even when I'm poorly, I can't stop and just have to carry on. This break meant the world to me. I can't even explain how wonderful it made me feel. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart. The hotel and staff were very nice and the food wasn't just lovely, I didn't have to clean up or wash the dishes. How wonderful to not feel guilty about such things! Thank you

I haven't had a holiday in over 21 years. I am literally on call night and day, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It's exhausting. I just carry on, carrying on. I forget about myself. I don't count myself as an actual person with needs. Even when I'm poorly, I can't stop and just have to carry on. This break meant the world to me. I can't even explain how wonderful it made me feel. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart. The hotel and staff were very nice and the food wasn't just lovely, I didn't have to clean up or wash the dishes. How wonderful to not feel guilty about such things! Thank you

I haven't had a holiday in over 21 years. I am literally on call night and day, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It's exhausting. I just carry on, carrying on. I forget about myself. I don't count myself as an actual person with needs. Even when I'm poorly, I can't stop and just have to carry on. This break meant the world to me. I can't even explain how wonderful it made me feel. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart. The hotel and staff were very nice and the food wasn't just lovely, I didn't have to clean up or wash the dishes. How wonderful to not feel guilty about such things! Thank you

Trish, an unpaid carer who stayed at Telford Hotel, Spa

We make these breaks both accessible and affordable. With a simple one-time registration and a small admin fee, carers can access breaks across the UK that would otherwise be out of reach.

Ready to feel like you again? See how a Carefree break can help you recharge.

Carefree banner to register and take a break

Get registered with Carefree today.

Your well-deserved break is waiting just around the corner. 

Give Rooms

Become a Carefree Breakmaker

Refer Carers

Join our network of Community Partners

Donate

Support our mission to get every carer a break

Give Rooms

Become a Carefree Breakmaker

Refer Carers

Join our network of Community Partners

Donate

Support our mission to get every carer a break

Give Rooms

Become a Carefree Breakmaker

Refer Carers

Join our network of Community Partners

Donate

Support our mission to get every carer a break

Give Rooms

Become a Carefree Breakmaker

Refer Carers

Join our network of Community Partners

Donate

Support our mission to get every carer a break